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  • Powerful Tools you can Teach your Children to Help Protect them Online

    May 26, 2017

    photo1blogby Hilary Smith

    Surprisingly, one of the hardest aspects of parenting is allowing our children to spread their wings and fly solo. Afterall, they used to beg to hold our hands or sit on our laps. Now, most of them just want to text their friends, hang out at the movies, or meet at the new trampoline center instead of spending time with us. We have raised our kids to be independent, making all those lessons about crossing the street, stranger danger, and basic safety worth the hard work.

     

    Watching our kids mature without us is difficult, but this means that we are succeeding at our jobs. However, along this journey to independence we might have overlooked instilling the skills needed to protect themselves online. As technology changes, our kids still need us to help guide them and empower them so they can safely navigate the digital world along with the real life world.

     

    4 Reasons Why We Need To Teach Online Safety

     

    Most of us willingly hand our youngsters digital devices without teaching them basic social media etiquette or ways to protect themselves online. We innocently give them a cell phone, tablet, gaming system, or computer so they can play a game, complete homework assignments, or message their friends. In that moment, we are just trying to help or pacify them. Unfortunately, many of us are unwillingly handing our sons and daughters access to a digital world that harbors some very serious dangers that can have far reaching consequences to their well being.

     

    Listed below is a sampling of some digital threats facing our kids we should be aware of:

     

    Cyberbullying. This online danger has made countless headlines in the past few years, but most of us assume our kids are smart enough to avoid cyberbullying. However, this digital trend isn’t going anywhere anytime soon. Even with all of the awareness, it is believed that cyberbullying rates have tripled within the last few years, even after we have held countless school assemblies and embraced zero tolerances against bullying. This means that 87 percent of our children have already encountered cyberbullying in some form.

     

    Sexting. Sexting is a modern version of “I’ll show you mine, if you show me yours” and is considered a normal part of development. Unfortunately, this mentality is landing a lot of our sons and daughters in hot water. Sexting opens up our kids to exploitation, cyberbullying, teasing, and even felony prosecution for owning or sharing child pornography.

     

    Identity theft or phishing. As technology evolves, so do the scams. Phishing is a method commonly used to trick people into opening a virus or sharing personal information which can result in identity theft or the sharing of financial account information. Today, these scams look legitimate, authentic, and can be difficult to detect until it is already too late. Often, kids are lured in by realistic looking emails, the promise of cheap goods, applications for scholarships, game demos, coupons, or free ringtones.

     

    Online predators. Predators go where children are and today that is online. According to the FBI, it is believed that 500,000 predators are logged online everyday. These creepers love the anonymity of the Internet and the ability to create fake personas, often creating a “teen” identity, that make it easy to contact children without even having to leave the house. They then scour social media and online hangouts looking for young users to groom.

     

    10 Tips to Empower Children Living in a Digital World

     

    Even though online dangers are frightening, we can’t realistically ban technology from our homes. Whether we like it or not, the digital world is here to stay. Thankfully, we can empower our sons and daughters with the skills to safely navigate the digital landscape.

     

    Listed below are 10 essential strategies and tools to teach our kids online safety:

     

    Develop a technology contract for the family that labels all expectations and consequences for using technology.

     

    Tell children to keep passwords private.

     

    Scrutinize emails, links, and registrations to make sure they aren’t being phished before clicking, downloading, or following links.

     

    Remind them that it’s alright to “say no” for sexts.


    If they do sext, make sure they know not to show their face or any distinguishing marks in the photos.

     

    Encourage them seek an adult immediately if they encounter anything online that makes them feel uncomfortable.

     

    Make sure to document all bullying messages.

     

    Friend people you actually know and avoid accepting requests from strangers.

     

    Never meet online friends IRL (in real life).

     

    Avoid sharing online your class schedules, address, itineraries, identifiable backgrounds (schools, malls, homes, etc.) and places you work.

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    How does your family teach children online protection?

  • The Mental Health Benefits of Flowers

    May 4, 2017

    by Hilary Smith

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    Fresh flowers are an excellent way to show someone affection or appreciation, brighten up a dreary room, or update your landscape and beautify your yard. But did you know that flowers are actually good for mental health? Recent studies are showing the simple pleasure of visually seeing and smelling fresh flowers has multiple benefits for enhancing and improving our state of mind. Their scent provides free aromatherapy for relaxation and a sense of peace, while the colors can either calm you (softer tones) or invigorate and energize you (bold, saturated colors). Either way, the effects are powerful in bolstering our physical, mental, and emotional outlook and increasing positivity.

    Some examples include lavender, jasmine, and lilac. They have scents that are particularly effective for relaxations and destressing. Spider plants, ficus, and peace lilies are known to help filter and clean the air we breathe. Eucalyptus, aloe vera, and chamomile have excellent medicinal abilities for soothing coughs, colds, and skin rashes. Other plants that are specifically known to have positive health effects include Golden Pothos, Arrowhead Vine, Chinese evergreen, Dracaena, Philodendron, Snake plants, and Vinca vines. So who specifically can benefit from the power of these plants and how? Let’s take a closer look.

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    For hospital patients or those with poor health

    Visitors have traditionally taken flowers to patients in the hospital simply as a nice gesture. In actuality, it goes way beyond a nicety. Flowers are influential in healing sick or recovering bodies. It has been shown that when fresh flowers or plants are in the room, postoperative patients require less pain medication and have reduced recovery times. Their blood pressure and heart rates are lower, and they are less tired and anxious. In general, their overall mental outlook is more positive.

     

    For employees

    In the workplace, flowers have been found to increase productivity and cognitive functioning, help with concentration and memory, and enhance creativity. Specifically, studies have found that being in a work environment with natural stimuli actually lends itself to better task performance and higher quality of work with increased accuracy. Additionally, plants are linked to improving reaction time in dealing with stressful situations, increasing attendance, and raising job satisfaction and overall well being and personal satisfaction.

     

    For children and families

    Flowers can have tremendous impact in the home, as well. Our families will benefit from an increased sense of vitality and energy and a decrease in anxiety and depression. For example, gardening is an excellent way to minimize stress, and it provides people a physical way to cope with negative feelings. Further, it encourages a nurturing attitude and dedication to a craft, which can lead to healthier relationships and higher levels of personal satisfaction. Using the fresh flowers from your garden in your home helps build positive levels of energy and increased focus. This is particularly beneficial for young learners as they prepare for school. The enhanced concentration helps them be better able to learn new information, as well as making it easier for them to process, absorb, and retain information.This even carries over into a win-win situation in classrooms with plants and increased concentration and focus. Also, as mentioned in the workplace above, plants help students with increased attendance. The more students are present in the classroom, and the better focused they are, the more the will get from their educational experience.

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    So what’s the bottom line?

    Flowers can make a significant difference in mental attitude. Hand picked from the yard or bought at a florist, flowers naturally help people find a better state of mind. Whether the intent is to heal quicker, focus and revitalize, or function with less stress, flowers can make you feel better, clear your mind, and prepare you to mentally tackle the day. Buy some for yourself, plant some with your children, or give them to your neighbor. In any scenario, the results will be astonishing. Who knew that flower power was such a real thing?

  • Series Review – Netflix “13 Reasons Why”

    April 18, 2017

    cassette tape imageBy Hilary Smith, Sprigeo Contributor

    As a parent of adolescents it can be difficult deciding what television shows, movies, or music are appropriate. We live in a world ripe with foul language, inappropriate content, and racy jokes that can be detrimental to our kid’s well being. After all, we ultimately want to protect our sons and daughters from this negativity, but we also want avoid sheltering them too much to prepare them for living in the real world. This conundrum has been plaguing parents for generations, but recently our family was facing this situation when our Eighth grader asked to watch 13 Reasons Why on Netflix.  This popular series is based on the novel “13 Reasons” by Jay Asher.

     

    At first, we thought it was another run of the mill comedy or action series, but as he started describing the premise of the show we began hearing the red flag word suicide over and over. That alone peaked our curiosity and when I noticed that it was rated TV-MA, we knew we had to look into this series before allowing our kids to view. The following article is a review of this series to offer you the perspective of a fellow parent.

     

    13 Reasons Why: A Brief Summary

     

    This series is reminiscent of the after school specials many of us watched as children. At the beginning of the series we are introduced to a high school reeling from the recent suicide of a girl named Hannah Baker. The students, staff, and parents are all trying to make sense of her death, especially since there appears to be no note left explaining why. Unbeknownst to her parents and a majority of the student body, Hannah left a collection of recordings on cassette tapes she wanted 13 people to hear.

     

    On these tapes she told them why their actions caused her to commit suicide which we learn about through Clay, the current recipient of the tapes. As he listens to each of Hannah’s recordings, he gains a different perspective into her life and relationships. With each cassette, we are taken on a journey of high school through the eyes of a teenage girl. We are watching her make sense of being the new kid, making friends, dealing with rejection, bullying, finding love, and even the sensitive subject of rape.

     

    One of the most surprising aspects to this method of storytelling is how on the surface Hannah looks relatively calm, but underneath we begin to see the trauma each person inflicts on her. We see her struggle to overcome cyberbullying, betrayal by friends, and even a stalker. Suddenly, we are witnessing the damage children inflict on a victim that often goes undetected by adults. As Clay listens to the tapes, he repeatedly uncovers his peers’ dirty laundry and their interactions with Hannah.

     

    Ways Parents Can Use This Series for Good

    We need to keep in mind that 44,193 Americans commit suicide each year. This can be broken down to about 121 deaths everyday. It is the 10th leading cause of death, outranking deadly motor vehicle accidents. While those statistics are frightening in their own right, we need to realize that for every successful suicide, there are 25 other attempted cases.

    Talking about suicide is never easy, but this series attempts to take an indepth look at all of the events leading up to Hannah’s death. In her own words, she refers to “The Butterfly Effect” and we see each situation build on the previous one, slowly mounting to create her “hurricane” or lead to her death. This can be troublesome as a parent, because we don’t want to even consider the idea that a child would choose this permanent solution to a temporary problem.

    Hannah’s story provides us a platform to begin an ongoing discussion about suicide, bullying, digital citizenship, sexuality, and relationships. It is a valuable wake up call, because it highlights the darker side of bullying in our schools and what we are doing to prevent suicide. While we might want to ignore these problems, we do need to acknowledge the very real threats facing many of our children.

    Through the characters’ eyes we are able to glimpse at how teens process and deal with these dicey topics which can open the window to starting difficult conversations with our own children. The show displayed the need to ask hard questions and listen to our child’s responses. In the end, we need to question if we are encouraging their self confidence or providing adequate help if we problems do arise.


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    After viewing the series alone, we did choose to watch the show with our son. After each episode, we used it as a springboard to begin many important conversations. Will you be watching with your child? What are your thoughts about this series?

     

    Suicide Awareness Voices for Education (SAVE) and Jed Foundation compiled a helpful list of Talking Points for 13 Reasons Why for parents teachers and other gatekeepers in talking with youth.

  • How to Teach Digital Citizenship and Social Permanence

    March 28, 2017

    DigitalCit2 by Hilary Smith, Sprigeo Contributor

    Recently, I read a story about a mother from Tennessee who used a tube of toothpaste to illustrate the power of words. The lady took a brand new tube of paste and told her daughter to squeeze it onto a plate. After every bit was pushed out, her mother then challenged the girl to put it back inside the tube.

     

    The daughter was caught off guard. She protested that it couldn’t be done and it wouldn’t be the same as before. That is when the mother stepped in and asked her daughter to never forget that plate of toothpaste. Then the mother shared a bit of timeless wisdom, “Just like this toothpaste, once the words leave your mouth, you can’t take them back.”

     

    You might be asking why this story of toothpaste is relevant, but this concept is a great illustration of how the Internet and social media work. The toothpaste is a child’s digital footprint, smeared on the plate for everyone to see. Once something is posted online, it is practically impossible to delete their words or undo any damage their actions have caused. This object lesson shows us why we need to teach our sons and daughters the concept of social permanence and digital citizenship.

     

    The Need for Social Media Etiquette

     

    We are raising the first generations of digital natives. They are the first of us who can’t remember a time before the Internet or social media. While they are adept at using every new gadget and app that hits the market, they might not have the necessary skills to safely handle their digital citizenship.

     

    Today’s kids are facing many unseen threats lurking behind their beloved screens. Some of these are cyberbullying, sexting, identity theft, online predators, and oversharing. To help us put these dangers into perspective, please consider the following statistics:

     

    • Rates of cyberbullying have tripled with recent years and 87 percent of our kids have encountered this cruel behavior.
    • One in three teens have sent, received, or viewed a sext according to an Mtv survey.
    • Sexting is now considered normal and a safe alternative to sex.
    • Minors who sext can be prosecuted with the felony of sending or receiving child pornography.
    • 500,000 online predators are logged onto the Internet everyday.
    • 60 percent of employers search online profiles and social media accounts to learn about applicants.
    • digitalcitizen1Teaching Kids Digital Citizenship and Social PermanenceThe above statistics are frightening, especially when we consider the amount of time and data our children spend online. Thankfully, as parents, we have the ability to educate and guide our children to learn ways to safely navigate the digital world. The following suggestions can help us teach digital citizenship and social permanence to our sons and daughters:

       

      • Begin an ongoing conversation about social media and the proper ways to behave online. Start early and frequently touch base about etiquette rules you expect them to follow on social media and the Internet. Make it a point to listen and avoid lecturing or judging. Afterall, it is our goal to encourage open communication.
      • Teach kids the “grandma rule”. This is a good rule of thumb to help kids know what is appropriate to post or share. Simply tell children to only share or say items they would feel comfortable with their grandparents seeing.
      • Clearly define the behaviors that are dangerous. This is vital, because kids often have completely different views of what constitutes cyberbullying and sexting than what do parents or authorities. Give examples so they will be able to tell when they crossed the line.
      • Develop a family technology contract. As a group, sit down and create a document clearly identifying all expectations for using technology and the consequences if anyone breaks the contract. This will help everyone understand the rules and prevent future disagreements.
      • Make sure kids understand the Internet never forgets. Children and teens need to understand that anything, even disappearing messages, can be saved with a screenshot or be retrieved years later from storage. Anything they post has the potential to impact their future college opportunities, scholarship applications, employment, and even their own children.
      • Have them tell a trusted adult if they encounter anything uncomfortable online. If a child notifies someone immediately, chances are we can prevent a situation from escalating. This works for everything from cyberbullying, requests for sexts, to inappropriate conduct.

      Looking Forward

      A little education and awareness can empower our children to handle common digital problems safely and prevent future dilemmas from developing. Similar to toothpaste, digital citizenship and social permanence are a regular part of our daily lives that we need to keep everyone smiling and happy. If we pay attention to these details, we can boost a child’s confidence while protecting their appearance online and offline.

      How do you teach digital citizenship and social permanence?

  • What Every Parent Needs to Know About Identifying and Stopping School Bullying & How to Empower Their Child

    March 7, 2017

    by Hilary Smith

     

    In the late ‘90s, the shootings in Jonesboro and Columbine gained the media’s attention to school violence and irreparably damaged parents’ perception of the educational walls as a harbor of safety and sanctuary for their children. School violence now encompasses not just the most extreme cases of violence and terror but also the everyday events that don’t always warrant a news story. Bullying—both physical and mental—is the everyday form of violence and horror that many students experience on a daily basis.

    According to the National Center on Education Statistics, about one in five students is a victim of bullying. Social media and its popularity among the millennial generation has made bullying and abuse not only easier but sometimes untraceable. Popular apps like Yik Yak allow kids to post comments anonymously and without care.

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    Cyber bullying is stealthy and dangerous. This type of bullying encompasses everything from hurtful rumors and name calling to sharing and posting inappropriate images with malicious intent. In some cases—like the case of Megan Meier—the bully isn’t even a child but a parent.

    Bullying in all forms destroys a child’s self-esteem, can cause depression, fear anxiety and can even lead to suicide attempts. However, parents and educators are not powerless to stop bullying and help victims.

    HOW TO REPORT BULLYING

    Parents should be proactive by watching out for warning signs that their child is a victim of bullying. According to an article from PBS, some of the warnings signs of bullying include a fear of going to school (or the bus), changes in school performance, wetting the bed, nightmares, stomach aches, and talks of suicide.

    If a child is a victim of bullying, parents must intervene. Children often feel that they are alone in the fight, and also harbor a fear that speaking up about the abuse will make the situation worse. However, kids cannot fight this battle alone.

    Dealing with a bully situation requires diligence on the part of parents. Stomp Out Bullying advises parents to get all the facts of the incidents first…then call the school and ask to meet with the principal. Stay calm and provide all the details and facts. After meeting with administrators, it’s also a good idea to send a follow up note to thank them for the meeting and perhaps even reiterate what was discussed at the meeting. Documented emails are always good to have on hand.

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    Parents also need to follow-up with their child to ensure the issue has been resolved. If the bullying continues, email the administrator stating additional concerns. If the administration fails to act, go higher up to the superintendent of the school. And, if all else fails, contact the police.

    HELPING A CHILD HEAL

    Even after the bullying has stopped, a child may still suffer effects of the abuse. Low self-esteem or depression may be experienced. Some children feel comfortable confiding in parents about their feelings or fears. However others might need additional therapy from licensed counselor or therapist to help heal the wounds.

    Children also might lean on silent companions like pets for comfort and support. Pets are often seen as perfect confidants for children, as they don’t judge and always provide a listening ear and unconditional love and affection. Some schools even use therapy dogs to help victims of bullying and to help instill a sense of empathy in the bullies themselves.

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    Parents may look into adopting a pet for a child to help encourage empathy or to provide their child with a devoted companion. Some of the best breeds for children include Labrador Retrievers, poodles, Golden Retrievers and small terriers like the Norwich Terrier.

    MOVING FORWARD AND TAKING A STAND

    While parents cannot always prevent a child from becoming a victim of bullying they can empower children to stand against bullying and to always speak up. The biggest weapon a child has against bullying is their voice. If they see another child being bullied, teach them to speak up and speak out Empower them to tell a teacher or another trusted adult.

    Bullies rely on silence and fear tactics and feel powerful in the process. There is, however, power in groups. And the more kids unite to speak out against the bully, the less power that bully has to continue the abuse pattern.

    Together, parents and kids can help end bullying and return schools back to a safe sanctuary for all students.

     

     

     

  • New School Safety Tip Line Program “SafeOregon” selects Sprigeo as their Primary Vendor

    February 22, 2017

    safeOregonsquareSprigeo is pleased to have been selected by the Oregon State Police as the primary vendor for SafeOregon, a new school safety tip line program available to all public K-12 schools in Oregon at no cost to use. SafeOregon requires schools to complete a sign-up process in order for students to use.

    Sprigeo provides tip-line services and school safety resources to over 4,500 schools across 29 states in an ongoing effort to promote school safety. Over the past 6 years, Sprigeo has been fortunate to have built relationships with school leaders and nationally recognized experts that have shared strategies and expertise with their growing network of school districts. Sprigeo CEO and Founder, Joe Bruzzese shared, “Kids and teens should feel safe at school. I’m proud that we can partner with the state of Oregon on the SafeOregon program. Oregon has taken incredible steps to ensure the safety of their students.”

    SafeOregon is a way for students, staff or other members of the public to anonymously report and share confidential information of a threat or a potential threat to student safety. Trained staff are available 24-hours-a- day, 365-days-a-year reached through a phone call, text message, mobile application or website. The main goal of SafeOregon is to intervene at the earliest possible point in the life of a young person who is struggling, helping them when they need it, before the situation turns into a tragedy.

    SafeOregon is designed to encourage Oregon students to share and respond to anything that threatens their safety or the safety of others, anything that makes a student feel unsafe or if a student knows someone who feels unsafe. Here are a few examples: safety threats, violence, threats of violence, fights, drugs, alcohol, weapons, bullying or friends that talk about hurting themselves, harassment, intimidation, cyber bullying, or self-harm.

    Jodi Sherwood, Oregon State Police SafeOregon Project Manager quote: “Sprigeo has a proven solution, easily scalable to fit Oregon’s need for a statewide approach. We are pleased to work with a vendor who has taken the time to understand the different needs of our state and work with us on the opportunities to improve school safety in a bolder, more proactive way helping our students achieve success.”

    Tips can be submitted 24/7/365 through the SafeOregon.com web portal, by e-mail to tip@safeoregon.com, through the SafeOregon mobile application (available for android or iOS device), or by calling or texting 844- 472-3367. Tips are promptly analyzed and routed for the most appropriate follow up and urgency. This may be to school officials, law enforcement, community mental health programs or other appropriate local or state agencies. Tip Line staff make sure follow-up is noted and recorded.

    SafeOregon – the school safety tip line – became Law through HB 4075 (2016), as a result of recommendations from the Oregon Task Force on School Safety charged with improving safety and security at schools across the state. The task force was established by House Bill 4087, bringing together representatives from police, fire, school administration, teachers, school boards and service districts, along with the Governor’s education and

    public safety policy advisors, and legislators. The task force is chaired by Clackamas County Sheriff Craig Roberts and Dr. David Novotney Willamette Education Service District.

    For more information, visit www.safeoregon.com. The resource page has more information for students, parents and for schools to sign-up. Students are encouraged to talk to their school administration about making SafeOregon available in their school.

    Additionally:
    It is a violation of ORS165.570 to improperly use the SafeOregon system.

  • Facts & Stats: Educating and Explaining Bullying and Cyberbullying to Children

    April 14, 2016

    By Hilary Smith

    The age old expression, “kids will be kids,” relates to the many examples of times that we shouldn’t expect our children to act like adults in almost any given situation, especially in social settings. When the majority of us were young, teasing and playground pranks were simply a part of growing up, but with the rise of today’s technology, we’re seeing some frightening statistics when it comes to being intimidated as a youngster, especially on the internet.

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    While this unfortunate part of childhood was once contained to a schools, playgrounds or local neighborhoods, these days some of these harsh realities are being played out and then shared and spread to hundreds, thousands or even millions of people online. According to some studies, the rates and incidences of cyberbullying have tripled over the past few years and some of the effects are crippling to children affecting them in some very dangerous ways:

    • 83% of kids feel that bullying has damaged their self esteem
    • Around 75% of children believe that bullying has harmed their social life
    • 30% of victims have turned to self harming behaviors from enduring this abuse
    • Attempting suicide has been reported by 10% of victims

    Since children learn from what they see and experience, another 7% of kids have resorted to bullying other children as a result of being tormented themselves at home.

    EDUCATION & PROTECTION

    As parents, we all want to protect our children from harm, but we can’t be there for them 24/7, so the best that we can do is educate them and attempt to prepare them for the real world. The younger the potential victim, the more difficult it can be to explain this concept to children, but Kid’s Health offers this advice for explaining why bullying happens in the first place:

    • Many are being bullied at home
    • Some children want to feel in control
    • Others may be seeking a victim

    Perhaps some children believe that by belittling others they will somehow feel important, give them a sense of being superior or that they will become more popular as a result. Even worse, many forms of today’s media, from popular television sitcoms to the big screen, are portraying name-calling and shouting insults as a part of everyday, normal life.

    BECOMING BETTER THAN THE BULLY

    Some of our parents may have told us how “sticks and stones will break our bones, but words will never hurt us,” but being bullied and the resulting emotional harm it causes can be just as devastating as physical pain. In this light, it’s up to us as parents to build up our child’s self-esteem, confidence and a sense of self-worth to prepare them for this type of verbal assault.

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    Therefore, it’s important for us to reiterate some of our own parent’s advice and remind our children that many examples of being bullied are simply words and not the actual truth so they shouldn’t be taken in that type of context. That’s why it’s so important to keep an open dialogue with our children, and here’s where it get’s tricky. For example, when you ask your child “how was school,” don’t take “fine” for an answer, dig deeper. Look for changes in typical tales and participation when you ask specific questions about:

    • Events at recess, sports activities and other outdoor events
    • Participation in their most and least favorite classes
    • Transportation to and from school, walking, carpooling, on the bus, etc.
    • After school events or simply what happens after the final bell rings
    • What’s happening with their friends and inside their social circle

    When it comes to bullying, take an objective look at your child and look for things that are out-of-the norm, even simple items like the fact that they wear glasses, are unusually small or large for their size and see if they could be hiding things from the description of their day that could relate to these subtle differences.

    While obvious signs of physical abuse can be seen in the form of black eyes or bruises, emotional scars run deep and often can’t be seen on the surface. Signs of torment and bullying can include:

    • Sudden weight loss or gain that is out of the norm
    • Changes in daily patterns or behaviors
    • Withdrawal or unexpected emotional outbursts
    • Listlessness or insomnia

    In some cases, a good offense can be better than an effective defense, and this is certainly true in this case. Rather than waiting for our children to be a victim of abuse, it’s better to educate them and raise their awareness to prepare them for this very realistic potential experience.

  • Survey Participants needed for study

    February 6, 2015

     

     This week, we were contacted regarding an important study that needs participants for their survey.   Please share this information with any parents you know of middle school students who may be interested.

     

    IF YOU ARE A MOTHER OF A PRIMARY OR MIDDLE SCHOOL CHILD YOU ARE INVITED TO WATCH AND RATE A CARTOON ON POSITIVE RESPONSES TO BULLYING

    THIS STUDY’S IRB PROTOCOL NUMBER IS 14-09

    The Research Group on Disparities in Health within the Department of Health and Behavior Studies at Teachers College, Columbia University, in New York, New York is studying how MOTHERS AND THEIR CHILDREN rate a CARTOON on positive ways to respond to bullying in the middle school setting, while also obtaining important background information through a survey.

    • We ask you to spend about 30 minutes participating in this study
    • First, we ask you to spend about 10 minutes answering an online survey
    • Then, spend 10 minutes watching a cartoon online with your child
    • Next, you spend about 3 minutes entering online how your child rates the cartoon, and other responses to it
    • Finally, we ask you to spend about 7 minutes rating the video and answering final questions
    • Participation in this study is limited to the first 150 mothers
    • After 150 mothers complete the survey, the computer program will automatically close the survey and send out bar–coded gift certificates for use at www.Amazon.com to three randomly chosen e-mail accounts ($300, $200 or $100) without in any way linking your identity to the survey results
    • Please go to the link below (www.surveymonkey.com/r/BullyingCartoon) to view the informed consent, learn about your rights as a participant, your child’s rights, and proceed to the survey.

    https:/www.surveymonkey.com/r/BullyingCartoon

  • Devon Bandison, Inspiring Fathers in NYC

    January 28, 2015

    Meet Devon “The Connector” Bandison who was born and raised in NYC and shares the same energetic heartbeat, big personality and commitment to excellence as his hometown. Devon is a high performance coach and speaker who’s committed to individuals and organizations that want to maximize their potential in areas of leadership, productivity, fatherhood, and work-life satisfaction.

    Sprigeo CEO, Joe Bruzzese met with Devon earlier this month. Devon inspires people, particularly fathers, in the NYC community to be at their best and for this we are proud to include him in the Heroes Project. You can find out more about Devon here:  www.devonbandison.com

  • Cyberbullying PSA

    December 19, 2014

    This video has popped up in our Facebook feed a few times since it was created for Bullying Prevention Month in October.  It presents a powerful message on cyberbullying in a unique way.  The video was a collaboration between a poet – Azure Antoinette and MusEffect dancers.  Powerful.